Laura - posted on 08/01/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )
I am trying lately to avoid arguing with my husband because when we argue it just goes back and forth and nothing ever really gets solved and I can only speak for me but I always end up feeling worse than when I started. I am finding it hard lately though to avoid saying anything hurtful or nasty because I know its wrong and I don't wanna be that person thats nagging and always starts an argument for no reason. So what I have been doing is this avoiding anything hat will start an argument and I have been keeping it to myself as much as I can. I also think though that I shouldnt have to do that because I should be able to tell him everything and anything but is it worth telling if it starts an argument. Is it better to keep thing to myself when I know deep down that it will start a fight and after we fight we will both feel even worse about the situation. What can I do myself to avoid saying anything that I will regret? Its hard to not say anything but since I am trying to be a better person about this I need advice.