Shannon - posted on 06/07/2011 ( 5 moms have responded )
Well to try to sum it up...my marriage is on the rocks. In sept 2010 my husband came to me and said that he didnt love me anymore and that he wanted to be separated..Well we worked on things and he had agreed to go to counseling. So we went to counseling from about dec2010 till the first week of march2011.(we had to quit bc we moved out of the county) well he had said that we would go somewhere new once he got more established with his new job. well things seemed to be going better since we were going to counseling until recently on may 13, he said he didnt love me,wanted a divorce,and that he has been lying to me ever since we were dating.He had told me that he only married me for sex and that he felt pressured into it. He didnt marry me bc he had truely loved me apparently. Well he will not go to counseling and he says he still doesnt know if he wants to be with me. He said that he was only pretending to want to be with me since we were going to counseling. That he hasnt been happy for a good while. So im trying to fix our marriage but he seems to want to get a divorce, and im just torn as to what to do becuase i love him, and always have and i find out that he never loved me the same way and doesnt really want me so Im not sure what to do. Ive beenpraying and trying my best to fix things but it seems like im the only one trying bc he refuses to talk to me and hardly treats me like a wife. So what to do now?