Cynthia - posted on 02/16/2010 ( 13 moms have responded )
It seems like i will never save money for our wedding... still no money for my dress, no engagement ring, no nothing!
I don’t know what to do?! something always comes up to suck away our savings i cant even scrounge up $120 to put a deposit on the engagement ring. How am i supposed to do this? i know the "material" of the wedding is not REALLY important but i have never had anything special (other than the birth of my son) in my entire life.
i have fought and struggled for EVERYTHING that i have. Just for once in my life i would LOVE for a good friend or family member to offer to help me... just once say its ok hun this is your special day and it will be beautiful i promise ill take care of it. am i selfish for wanting this? Fuck even if everyone in my friends list on MySpace and Face book said hey love here is $20 for your wedding i would have $1.600! that would come damn close to paying for the whole thing!
its starting to look like i may get married in a tattered dress, in someone’s shitty back yard and a 25 cent ring from a vending machine to seal the deal..
what should i do?