Carolyn - posted on 01/14/2010 ( 11 moms have responded )
i am stuck on the issue of letting my ex fiance see my son who is now 8 months old. we had been together for 2 years and had plans on getting married until he was arrested and sent back to mexico.i found out i was preg when he was in jail and we continued to talk for the next 4 1/2 months. we broke it off when he was still in mexico cuz i was not willing to drop my life here and move there with him, he never even once called or anything to see how the baby was or how i was. when i was 6 1/2 months he came back and was living with another girl who he has a child with and yet still he made no contact with me and told my friends i was faking the whole pregnancy. two times he has contacted one of my friends and asked where im at. i currently do not live in the same state as him cuz the girl he is currently with tired to kill me while i was preg. why do i feel like im the one that is wrong when he let his current girl try to kill me and his baby? should i just keep him out of the picture or give him the second chance?