Due Today

Chelsea - posted on 05/26/2011 ( 4 moms have responded )

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I swore to my daughter and myself she was not going to be overdue and apparently she is going to be stubborn cause sure enough i'm due today and she is still in there, getting bigger everyday and i hurt more and more everyday, my pelvic bones are rubbing together when i walk and ache all the time im popping and cracking in every joint, not having very many contractions and its to the point my belly is so big and tight that when my daughter lays her head on it it hurts, and trying to tell your 2 year she cant lay on mommy, well just doesnt work. My car has been in the shop the last few days and should be out by tonight so i guess at least thats a positive to her still being in there because we will have to take her out for her dr. appointment, her wic appointment and her hearing screening, all in the first week, my husband work 5am till 2pm mon-fri so he will have to take a few days off if she doesnt come this holiday weekend. I just want her to come out, I tried sex and EPR oil and raspberry leaf tea and pinapple and spicy foods the only thing left is castro oil and i just cant bring myself to that yet, plus i dont have a car to drive to the grocery store and it wont quite raining so i can go for walks. My pelvic pain causes sex to be horrible horrible horrible and anytime i left one leg higher then the other it feels like i got punched in the crotch. A few days ago my boobs started to hurt and i have tried nipple stimulation both manualy and with a pump and not one contraction from that. I just want her to come before my dad leaves and before she is to big and gets stuck

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Chelsea - posted on 05/27/2011

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I cant see myself taking the castro oil till im faced with having to go to the hospital but i can barely walk or sleep and i feel more tired everyday which isnt going to help me adjust much...sorry to hear things are rough for you laura hopefully within the next few weeks she settles down and everyone is happy and comfortable. I still havent been checked but if i havent had the baby by my appointment on tuesday then i will be getting checked because i will almost be a week overdue

Laura Zoey - posted on 05/26/2011

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I only did castor oil as a last resort before an induction, it worked! Nasty shit but it was worth it to me not to have to do induction at the hospital as opposed to my planned home birth.

Kelly - posted on 05/26/2011

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I know how you feel on many of those counts! My darling Jimmy is now 4 days past due. The I haven't wanted to have sex much either as my pubic "bone" (its a joint) dislocated a few weeks ago, and though physical therapy got it back in line, it's still pretty painful at times, so the only comfy position for sex seems to be standing leaning over the bed, so my legs get tired and sore, and I just wanna say "hurry up" but that's a mood killer ;) I ate some fresh pineapple today, and nothing. Have had spicy mexican food every week for the past 3 weeks, and nothing. I've tried walking miles and miles (painfully due to pelvic issues), and nothing. I've tried cinnamon tea, and nothing. Last week they swept my membranes to try to get things going, and (you guessed it) nothing. I am sooo not interested in castor oil either, that just sounds disgusting. I have my 40 week appointment tomorrow morning and expect to discuss possibly inducing soon. They estimate my little man is probably at least 9 lbs by now, and I'm sooo not looking forward to pushing another 9 lb baby :( I just want to play with his cute little feet and snuggle his little body while I nurse him. I want to snap a million photos of him with his big brother. I want my baby out!!!!

Laura Zoey - posted on 05/26/2011

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Sorry Chelsea, I know the feeling. Hope Maecyn isn't 9 days past like Fierna was, but adjusting has been very very hard and sometimes I find myself wishing she had stayed in longer :( it's tough, you want the baby out, but once she's out it gets so much harder! Hope it goes well for you, maybe you won't have a hard time adjusting like I am......