Brittany - posted on 04/11/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
My husband is currently deployed and he took money out of our checking account and didnt check with me now our account maybe over drawn becuase of some bills that need to clear. I have always told him before I even spent a dime and now that he is gone even more falls on me to keep track of it all. Well needless to say I was so upset from not hearing from him and then turning around taking money out with out letting me know if we can afford it i heard from him tonight and yelled at him and said stuff I didnt mean to say. I love my husband I just feel like he treats me like one of his army buddies instead of his wife. He will send me emails in which is all military langues and I dont understand half of it lol. I email him and tell him how mine and the kids day went and he response like yeah ok????? I know he is working and busy but he seems to no realize or bearly even ask how the boys are. Well I got angry and yelled at him about all of this. I didnt want to but all kinda came out. Sorry for the long message but has anyone else done this and how did it work out for you??? Or do I have to act like everything is just peachy like some other blogs say to do.