April - posted on 09/21/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
So I have been married to my husband for 7 years now, and have been separated for 1 and 1/2. We have 5 yr old twin boys and a 22 month old. We've been together since I was 13. He asked me to try and get pregnant to have our 22 month old, after I had her, I was going through postpardum. He got a facebook account and then started talking to a female that he cheated on me with in high school. I found out about it and then we split up, I moved back to Alabama, he moved her into our house in Virginia and then they moved to Camp Pendleton, CA. She just had a baby in March for him and he has only seen his kids since, one time. He calls probably 2x a month and doesn't really do much for them. He sends $1200 a month for them but I want to stop working and finish school so I can move on with my life. I have filed for divorce but he has not sent over his financial information yet. I have finally found a boyfriend and has moved on with my life but I want to know will I end up possibly losing custody for them because I'm not working? His gf used to be on drugs and don't have custody for her other 2 kids...what should I do? How can I get my child support enforced and what chances does he have at custody if I do not work? Please help!