Hannah - posted on 09/18/2010 ( 15 moms have responded )
I wanted some other opinions on this one..
My husband is a recruiter, his station made mission this month and he told me they were going out for "a beer or two and would be home by 11pm at the latest" he also told me they were going to a local bar and grill (similar to Applebees family friendly place with a bar in it) I told him he deserves it and to have fun. (NOTE: We have a 4 month old daughter that is attached to me at all times.. I have never been able to go out alone because hes not comfortable watching her : /.) Well 11:30 rolls around and I ask him if he will be home sometime soon.... I find out that hes at a hookah bar at this point.. **I'm starting to get mad** He has told me about this hookah bar because its a local hang out for high school students and he told me "were never going there". well long story short I told him I would like to do something for myself on occasion and I "ruined his night". I fell asleep at 11:30.. he came home at 3AM!!!! I'm so angry and disappointed in him.. I feel like I have every right to feel this way but he seems to think this is acceptable behavior. Am I in the wrong for feeling this way!?