Melissa - posted on 04/14/2009 ( 1 mom has responded )
HI, my husband is deployed for 1 year and i have a 4 year old who cries almost every night and a 16 months old son who calls every guy daddy. he left about 5 months ago now and it is hard. I do not know where he is either exactly as he can't tell me. My daughter doesn't understand why her daddy is gone and askes me all the time if daddy is coming home soon. She was young when he left for the last long deployment so this time it is much harder on her. how can i explain to her when she just turned 4 years old where daddy is and when he is coming home?