Laura - posted on 01/01/2010 ( 36 moms have responded )
Who is more likely to cheat? The one deployed? Or the one at home?
I am the one at home and this is my 3rd deployment w/ the hubby (although there have been lots of other small deployments). I have children, but none with him. I hear all the time about military cheating and it scares me.
So one day I was talking to a "friend" about my hubbys deployment and he asked me if I was going to be a "West Pac Widow"; I had no clue what that meant so I asked my hubby. MAD is an understatement of his reaction and I know longer talk to that friend (he was male, seemed like an invitation).
I hear from the hubby about how he would never cheat on me because I am the only one he wants and that he would be demoted if he did cheat. But I question things everytime he is on land and he doesn't contact me (hes in the navy, a chief).
But he questions me just as much. One of the times he came home, he told me to say good bye to my boyfriend, which I did not have, nor ever did... nor even had any male close to me at all.
Am I just being jealous? Insecure? Or should I be worried? I love these support website things, but sometimes they put thoughts into my head that I don't want there....