Brittney - posted on 06/05/2010 ( 86 moms have responded )
When I married my husband he was in the military with 4 years left. He always told me he didnt want to stay in for 20 years but now that his reenlistment is coming up he says he wants to reenlist. Im working around his schedule. I cant find a job because he's always in the field and our daycare only last til 6pm and arent open on weekends. Im okay with it because I knew when I married him it would be hard.
I want him to get out but he acts like it's only his choice. I want a house and to be able to start my career and moves closer to one of our families so that our daughter can grow up with her cousins. I feel if the roles were reversed and my job told me to transfer to a new location it would be a family decision. Is it only up to him? I feel like my life is on the backburner while he goes out and lives his.