Rosa - posted on 02/21/2011 ( 20 moms have responded )
Honestly has always been the rule of all marriage that last, and has worked for older marriages. You know like the 40+ yrs ones...lol. However, after talking to other couples I have found that not everyone can take the truth as it is. You ask if you're fat or if your pretty, but what about the hard question. Like:
-Do I please you sexuallly?
-Would you marry me knowing what you know now about me?
-Are you attracted to my friends, and which one?
-How much weight you think I should lose?
-Do you like what I wear?
-Do you look at other wives and wish I had there qualities?
-Is there any area you wish I helped more in or just was more supportive in?
I have ask all those question, and most men refuse to answer saying "She would kill me if I answered those honestly. Anyway, my marriage isnt great but its better than others." Now you're in a marriage shouldnt you make the adjustment just as you would if you didnt like the colour of your home, your weight, your hair style or even your car. Making small changes now will keep your marriage together in the long run. What changes does your marriage need?