EYDY - posted on 08/30/2012 ( 9 moms have responded )
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wow its amazing how i am not the only one going through this is sick how military man are just cheaters left and right. but yet some kind of heroes.. not to us or our kids.. i have been married to a marine for 14 years have 2 kids that we went through infertility treatment to have them. when my second one was born i caught him on the chatting apps day and night lied about went to counseling and still lied.. and denied doing it. he got orders to japan but i decided not go because it was just too much for me and my lil ones to go handle with not having any help or support from him it was always arguing and fighting and screaming in front of my babies at the time. we decided i would move back to my home state with some fam. and he came back 3 months later to visit and i realized that my older one got affected by him not being around and after 3 months of not having him around things were better we missed each other so i was schedule to move to japan with my girls and he got sent to the philiphines and he cheated on me with a 21 year old told me that every single marine does that while in that island even higher ups that they get some kind of class to keep quiet about it.. sick!! so he cancelled our trip and he stopped calling me told me he didnt love me and he wanted a divorce.. well after 7 months went by he decided to come and visit but all this cheating i did not know about until after hes second visit. its been a year and he has not come to visit hes daughters hes schedule to come to the states in exactly a month.. he has been supporting us financially since day one.. i am a stay home that decided to go to school just to be ready for the worst and im about to finish a one year program.. my question is if anyone out there knows how this divorce crap goes.. How much child support do i get and how much alimony do i rate and for how long because he keeps telling me that he would only give me like 150 per kid a month and alimony only for a few months until i get a job.. he is an E-5 marine been in for 11 years he gets paid pretty good.. so to me that doesnt sound right and after him fn up my life and my kids life i want to make sure he pays back some how and hes money will be good enough for me for right now.. because my kids are used to a pretty good life style from the day they were born.. and stupid military man that cheat and abandon their families that easy should get punished and in trouble because we go through as much shit as they do when we are spouses.. someone anyone please help!! thanks
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