Krista - posted on 02/02/2011 ( 13 moms have responded )
My son's first birthday is in a couple of weeks and my husband just got sent on a deployment about 3 weeks ago. Ive been debating on to give my son a party or not. I honestly dont want to because i feel bad that my husband want be here. Also, there are memeber's in his family i don't get along with. Will i be a bad mother if i don't throw him a party, but instead maybe take him to pick out a toy he likes or something?