Anna - posted on 11/18/2010 ( 11 moms have responded )
my husband left for afghan about a month ago. I havent been able to hear from him much which i expected and i understand. but when i do hear from him he is either being a sarcastic butt-head or hes yelling at me about something. Now, i know he is in a horrible place living in horrible conditions, so im not trying to say "ohh poor me" but i am just curious if any one else has had this experience? I am very careful about what i say to him, or what i talk to him about, but it always seems to end up badly. Im trying ot be there for him the best way i know how, considering this is the first deployment for both of us. I guess i really just want to know if this is normal for our hubbys to act this way, and if it will get any better?
any help or advice is greatly appreciated!