Pauletta - posted on 12/10/2012 ( 7 moms have responded )
My husband is in the NG and he is being deployed in January. The job I have is horribly stressful. To the point to where I'm actually losing hair and weight. The weight isn't so bad because I never really lost any after having my son 4 years ago. Anyways, I've had this job for 3 years. There's only my manager and myself, as assistant, in this one facility. It's a cash advance business. Over this past year things have changed and gotten practically unbearable. They refuse to hire at least a part time help and I get stuck doing not only my job but the managers job as well. Not a day goes by that I don't come home with a headache. I've been applying for jobs and have some that are promising and A LOT closer to home. I have never quit a job without having another lined up. My husband on the other hand wants me to go ahead and quit, because my manager will not work with me on anything. Even to the point to where the day he leaves to be deployed she won't let me come in just one hour late so I can see him off. He said he didn't care if I had to go work a part time job somewhere in our town it would be less stressful. I do want to quit but I'd rather have another job lined up. I'd appreciate any thought on it, because I love my husband but between him, my job, his deployment and taking care of our kids I'm stressed to the max here! Just to add this in here because the original title made my husband sound really controlling and he's not. My husband just hates seeing me so stressed and with the headaches and etc.