Shana - posted on 01/11/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )
My husband is in the Air Force, and recently just got his first set of orders to Korea. Of course, they would be unaccompanied, and for 12 months! YIKES! I'm really nervous/worried and confused. I don't know whether to stay here, in base housing, go move back around family, or what. I'm also worried, that since it is the first time we have been apart for more than 2 weeks, about the cheating thing. My husband has done some hardcore flirting in the past, but not in a while, but i don't think the thought will ever leave my mind. there is always that what if. I told him i dont want him drinking over there, because drinking leads to poor decision making.
I just need advice on how to handle this. Im trying to be supportive, but as the day gets closer, i break even more. We have a 1 year old, thats semi-special needs as well.
Im looking for people to tell me how they get through this, some things that helped them stay busy, as well as their decision to either stay put, or move and why.
PLEASE HELP! I'm going crazy here! lol