Kristi - posted on 01/30/2010 ( 88 moms have responded )
I keep on reading all these posts having to do with military wives saying that wives shouldn't complain about being a military wife and how they chose this life and knew what they were getting into and how they need to just deal with it. I'm am a military wife and did not choose this life and I had no idea what I was getting myself into and how hard it would be. I think everyone has their own oppinion but come on women we are here to support eachother and all I have read is wives being rude to other wives.
Snap shot of my situation: I dated a former marine and asked him if he would ever go back. He said no, so we went on dating. I am a peace not war kind of person and did not want to be one of those wives that had to deal with the government or any military. Anyway one thing lead to another and I married the former marine. After we were married he decided that he wanted to go back to the military and of course I was his wife I had to follow my husband. Being a military wife is not fun and I hate that I am away from my family and life long friends. I hate that I am always alone and now raising a child by myself because of multipul deployments. All I want is friendship and support from other wives in my same situation. We all need to support eachother not bash eachother.