I need advice on the army life because i tired of people whose not in the army tellin me different.

LaTerra - posted on 11/03/2009 ( 6 moms have responded )

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iam 19 and my hubby juss went to basic training and i want to no how is it like being a army wife with 2 children,

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LaTerra - posted on 11/05/2009

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Thinks for you comment. alot of people tried to bring me and my husband down but i love him so much and i love that he riskes his life juss so that his family can have a good one.

Akila - posted on 11/05/2009

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I will tell u ! try to stay busy,work if u can. talk with your family as often as you can. Limit friends within the army wives circle. Alot of relationships are destroyed because of what somebody say. If you stay to yourself and focus on your child/children and your Husband's return, thats eliminated! Keep Christ in your life and you will be ok !

LaTerra - posted on 11/03/2009

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Thank you girl* Iam so proud of him for joining the army because he did it for are family i juss hope i can control him being gone all the time and be happy while doing it.

Megan - posted on 11/03/2009

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My husband has been out of basic for almost 2 years now. Our daughter was 2 when he was there. Having him be gone for 5 months was hard, but seeing him after it all was so worth it. I sent him letters daily and had our daughter send him pictures. The best thing you can do is tell him whats going on and let him know how proud of him you are. Show your support for him and the choice to serve our country, no matter how hard the separation may be on you, because it will be hard on him too

LaTerra - posted on 11/03/2009

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Thanks girl it's really good to get advice from mothers who are juss were u are at it's juss hard with two kids and all but i have my family helping me right now so when it's time for me to be a woman and take care of mines it kinds of scare me juss a little because i no how the army work a little and not going be there half of the time iam not a big fan of being alone.

Ramada - posted on 11/03/2009

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i am 19 as well Laterra, my husband juz came up on his 1 year mark in da military in Oct. we have 2 kids, our little will be 2 tomorrow and our son is 5mos months. Since your husband is in BT, it's kind of hard, i mean u probably have alot going on in your head about what he's doing all. it comes up trust me, i been through all that, when my husband came home from BT, it was like a new beginning girl, like we just met lol. It's a little hard, but he will write u, u just write him everyday to encourage him. let him know yall ok and he will be fine. he will call probably once or twice out the week or when they get privileges. soon u get his address, you write, write, write....hope i answer ur question..u can talk to me anytime....