Cori - posted on 01/30/2010 ( 1 mom has responded )
I want to be there for the other wives in my husbands squadron but they are all having marriage problems (and they all have at least 1 kid) a week ago i had to drag one of my friends out of her house with her daughter because she was going crazy on her husband and i kept tellling her that her daughter didnt need to see that. (she wasnt getting physical just lots of yelling fighting and swearing) and just last night a different wife showed up at my house at 2 AM (!!!!) ringing the doorbell and asking to borrow our car so she can go find her husband because he was apparently "lying to her" about where he was.. so all in all, this was kind of venting and asking if anyone else is the wife that the crazies gravitate to for assistance. i love both of these women that i talked about just now but there are more than just them. my husband and i are good friends for the people that we close with (and we have been with these people for the last 3 years even before we all had kids) and i just dont know what to do now that their marriages are falling apart but mine has never been stronger! we give advice when they ask for it and i try to intervene when they start saying mean things to their SO's that arent necessary in front of their kids, but how much can a girl take?