Amber - posted on 07/09/2009 ( 22 moms have responded )
I found out about a month ago that my husband who is stationed in Korea has cheated on me with one of his female friends pretty much since he got there which was in January.He's the one who told me and says he sorry that he broke it off about 2 months ago and still wants me to go over there, but I'm not sure if it's the best decision. I mean we both want to make this marriage work, plus we have 2 small boys.It also goes against my plan of joining the military, I was originally was going to join but i had gotten pregnant with my youngest and could not, when i he told me he cheated ( which i already knew) it gave me a perfect excuse to join up, but now that i can he doesn't like it. I admit i'm still very angry with him, but i know that being mad at him will not help the situation. i don't trust him, but i don't nag him with questions, i do want to work this out with him though but is going all the way to Korea the best choice. Any advice would be great. We're both 21 and have been married 2 years but for a year and a half he's been gone.