Pella - posted on 09/27/2009 ( 8 moms have responded )
i know that i am not the first or the last spouse that had to deal with that but i am about to loose myself.we are married for 4 years and i can say that wasnt the best years of my life.i was giving him everything and always put his feelings and his needs before me.i was always there for him ready to do whatever its take to make him happy.what he was giving me back???? differend kind of names,no time for me ,no respect,hittings and many more.he deployed two times and i had the opportunity to leave him but i had feelings for him and i stay waiting for hm to come back.this time before he come back he start talking about divorce but for one more time i tried to be nice and understanding but i was try by myself for that wedding.when he came back he was a differend person and be mean to me.when i looked his laptop tried to finger out what is wrong i found photos of him with an other girl holding each other and the same girl naked.he made me feel to little.of course we are taking a divorse and for one more time he saw me what kind of person he is by telling me that he gonna take my son away from me.a son that i raised by myself because he never had time to spend for him or for me.he never spend money for him.what the navy gonna do for that? is gonna suport me for being there for him or gonna suport him just because he is in the navy? how the system works?