Ashley - posted on 12/30/2009 ( 14 moms have responded )
My husband leaves in the beginning of January '10, and it seems like we are fighting every day now! We have been married for 3 years, and have never fought up until recently. We fight over stupid things... we should be getting closer and spending loving quality time together, but instead we fight... is this normal? Its our first deployment, and sometimes i think we would be better off if we just fled the country!!!!!! He is going to Afghanistan for a whole year, and there is so much to worry about!!!