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was your husband home for your childs birth? i feel like the odds of that happening are slim to none, so i just got over the fact that it could happen and accepted the reality that it wont. but HE wont accept it, he keeps talking about how hes going to be there and i hate to be the berrier of bad news ALL the time but, i rather him come home later that way all his time home is with baby instead of him coming home and having even less time to be with his son, its our first baby ever! so i understand he wants to be there, but should i keep pushing him to just come home later?