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Clare - posted on 06/12/2011 ( 1 mom has responded )

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hey ladies,
really i just want to know how you do it putting on a smile but missing him like crazy.
ive been with my husband for 2 years he is getting ready to deploy and its killing me him been gone.
ive just lost our baby a month ago its hard as i would have had the baby just before he left so he could meet him/her,
everyone tells me it will happen again i know they are right however he is away so much it just wont happen and i dont mean to soon doom and gloom but if he dose not come home what will i have of him.. im sick of people telling me things when they have no idea i just want to talk to some one who understands.

thank you

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Christina - posted on 11/14/2011

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Hello Sweetie
God bless you and your hubby
you are stronger then you know... this will be hard but you can do it!
I had a miscarriage while my hubby was in basic... i was also devistated and went though a tuff and dark time... the worst thing to do is shut down or not talk...
i know what you mean about people understanding but they are at least sympathizing even other military wives dont always understand some deal diff and everyones situation is diff... lean on your family they know you and pray... i will pray for you too take care of your self and try to talk with your hubby even write letters often it will help your relationship grow while your apart...
sending love an prayers hunny

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