Feeling horrible! And is his toothe fixable?

Courtney - posted on 05/07/2010 ( 3 moms have responded )

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I feel like the worst mommy ever right now..I was giving my 14 month old a bath and as we were batheing he decided he wanted to play peek a boo with mommy with the shower curtain the first few times he giggles and we had our laughs but i noticed he was getting more excited about peek a boo and i didnt want him to slip and fall or pull the shower curtain down so i then decided to tell him mommies turn and i would hold the shower curtain saveing him the fall and just incase he would have pulled it down well as im takeing it off him he turns to walk away and BOOM knocks his mouth off the tub i instantly grab him not only cuz i knew it hurt but b/c i seen blood this isnt the first time he has fell and i seen blood but now the 2nd time but the worst part is when he fell he hit his mouth and his front tooth and chipped his little tiny tooth his 1 of only 5 in his mouth! I feel horrible i cried and cried b/c i know my son will have to live with a chipped toothe until he either loses it which can be anywhere from the age 6 and up..But i dont know if it can be fixed it isnt a bad chip so im wondering if maybe a dentist could fill it in? I mean i know he wont sit still for that now but maybe when hes like 3 so i can spare 3 years..Im so hoping im not the only mom out there on this matter..My husband tells me not to worry and that it was an accident but i cant help but to wry its his tooth! I mean if it was a bruise or a scratch i could handle it but its his tooth! My hubby isnt even the slightest bit angry with me or the matter he keeps re-assuring me its okay which i get he hate to see me sad expecially if it come to something i feel i failed at and tonite i feel like i failed badly as a mom! I have never felt this way before about anything! I always thought i was an amazing mom and anyone who second guessed that in my opinion was nuts! But after tonite i dunno i just feel really bad..and i guess needed to vent nd as well feel re-usered that im not the only one this has ever happened too? I get them falling and knocking there mouth and it bleeding but its the whole tooth thing that makes me feel soo bad!

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Candace - posted on 03/28/2011

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If it gets worse and starts rottening then yes when he is older they can and will fix it. Because there is something about damaging a tooth like that can end up causing problems no matter how much you take care of them. I know a 4 year old who has lots of dental work he has been getting it since he was 2 at least his teeth are just bad from the inside. They believe it is genetic. So you would be surprised what they do to even baby teeth.

Ixchel - posted on 09/29/2010

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Is this your first Child? If the only thing that ever goes wrong is a broken tooth you'll be happy and lucky. Don't sweat the small stuff, I know you feel bad we all do the first time our little ones and every time they get hurt, but after a few bumps scrapes and bruises. You kinda get use to it, My husband and I were so over- protective with our first and then we realized our over zellnous a little with the second. My mom and my mother in law joke and say it is kinda like the baby book with your first baby you fill it all out dilligently and with the second it get half filled out and with the third, you don't even buy the baby book. You can rest assured that you did nothing wrong and your boy will have plenty more bumps scrapes and bangs along the way. Don't be so hard on yourself.

Heather - posted on 06/15/2010

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I actually had a similiar thing happen today. My husband and I had our 18 month old twins in the pool and my daughter got out to go and give her grandmother a high five. She then decided that she didn't want to come back to me, she wanted to jump in alone. So she went a foot or so away from where I was and I moved down to meet her, so she moved again and so on and so on until she decided to start running. Well, she tripped on the cement and fell on her hands and knees and then over on her face. Her hands and knees were fine and her face was a little skinned up, but she chipped her front tooth. she hasn't even had the thing a year! Anyway, I feel like you do. I hate that she is going to have that chip, but there was nothing that I could do to stop it. Like you I was trying to protect my child and she still got hurt. You are still a great mom, you were doing what great moms do, protecting your child from a danger that you saw (falling in the tub) but sometimes there are just accidents that we don't see coming. I just think that at least I protected her from falling into a pool which could have potentially been much worse than a chipped tooth. And you protected your son from a possible head injury or brpken bone that could have been much more painful and problematic. Anyway, I hope this helped, and I hope that your son is doing well.