Has anyone accidentally seen their son's penis

Jackie - posted on 08/21/2013 ( 57 moms have responded )

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I am a single mom with 2 son's (20 and 17)...I accidentally walked in to my son's room and he was laying on his bed naked masturbating...I was somewhat shocked and didn't even realize I was standing there staring until my son yelled "mom, shut the door", which I did quickly...I felt embarassed....Has anyone else walked on their son or saw their son's penis? How did you feel?

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Anne - posted on 02/27/2014

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My son is 14 and I go in the bathroom with him to make sure he washes his penis correctly he had an infection under his foreskin 4 months ago .
He is not happy with me washing him.

Sarah - posted on 08/22/2013

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My son is years away from being old enough to masturbate.
To directly answer your question, yes I have, I’m his mum.

Is your question about masturbation, rather than penis?
What shocked you? Seeing his penis, or that he was masturbating, or that you happened to catch him?

Jaanny - posted on 11/07/2013

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Not my son's (I don't have one), but we had 2 French brothers staying with us, doing a language exchange homestay. 2 gorgeous black lads, 15 and 16. Last Saturday morning my 14 year-old daughter came to me in the kitchen giggling and took me upstairs to show me something. The boys' bedroom door had swung open. Both their duvets had slipped on to the floor and they were lying asleep on their beds, both naked, one on his front, so with his bare bottom on show, and his brother on his back, and his penis hard on. Very cute.

Jackie - posted on 08/22/2013

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seeing his penis, I know people masturbate, also I guess actually seeing him do it and actually staring at it....I understand mom's see their child penis when they are young.

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Ed - posted 1 day ago

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You don't have to say a thing. Women had a lot of fun, because, I have a small penis, and women like the novelty. They tell their friends, and I enjoy it! If you lemons, make lemonade. Everything turns out O.K.

Sarah - posted on 07/18/2014

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Shawnn, you are right in saying that parents who sexually handle their children and abusing and should be reported.

But you are very wrong that it is not normal for a mother not to be aroused seeing her son in a sexual situation, or even thinking about - that is how our brains are designed - I am not referring to mothers being aroused by their sons, but by the sexual situation. As sexual reaction happens in the lower brain, we have no conscious control other it, you are condemning women for something we have no control over.
What we do control is our actions, not our feelings, nor our desires.

The other part of your argument is what some rapists use to justify rape. They say she was 'wet', therefore aroused (to some extant is true, because knowing what the rapist intends, the body sometimes reacts to the anticipated (but unwanted) penetration) saying - therefore she enjoyed it - that is false. Even if it was true, that the victim did not consent makes it wrong, and a crime.

Shawnn - posted on 07/17/2014

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this thread is infested by trolls now. Pedophiles and trolls.

IT IS NOT NORMAL FOR A MOTHER TO BE SEXUALLY AROUSED BY HER SON. ITS SEXUAL EXPLOITATION.

Those 'ladies' claiming for it not only to be alright, but claiming to watch their sons jack off, or being 'happy' that their kid gets an erection when they are being intimately handled (IE ABUSED AND EXPLOITED) by their parents are pedophiles and need to be reported.

Dafna - posted on 07/15/2014

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Yesterday a good friend of mine told me that her son aged 14 and a half yo, has only one testicle, ( he was born with one testicle ) so she checks his testicle, once a week. To ensure the testicle evolving well.
The boy himself did not want to go to the doctor to be tested, he is very ashamed that he has only one testicle. And he did not want anyone to know about it.

I asked her, is he not embarrassed when you check it ??? ... And she replied, not at all. he used to it since he was a baby, and we treat it in the most natural and normal behavior she also told me that his one testicle is as the size of two normal testicles.
I asked her, did his penis get erection while she checks it ??? She sinply answered : usually yes., And I'm glad to see that everything is ok with him.
Acording my opinion, she wonderful and responsible mother.
I encouraged her and told her that I am very proud that I have a good friend like her.

Sarah - posted on 07/12/2014

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Karen, being turned on seeing your son's penis is normal.
Our brains are designed to react to sexual situations. Getting turned on happens in the lower brain, we have no conscious control over that.
Being horny is normal - just keep in mind that boys should not see their mother masturbate.

Dafna - posted on 07/05/2014

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i sow my son masturbating. He was 15 and his cock was so cute when he's erect. I continued to stare at his cock antil hr ejeculeted.

When he finished, he noticed me, then i turned and went out from his room, as nothing had happened.

Danielle - posted on 07/04/2014

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Mary, thanks for your post the other posts are helpful also with my situation. When I saw son a few months ago I was shocked, he was quite large, he obviously knew he was and wanted me to see him. I had not seen him since he was younger. I do not know what has brought on his new behavior, maybe the hormones have started to rage.

Danielle - posted on 07/04/2014

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I agree with what I think you are saying Jackie. It is different indeed and sometimes hard to deal with.

Danielle - posted on 07/04/2014

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I know what you mean I think Jackie, I wrote earlier about my son. I have seen him masurbate. I am sure he arranged it so I would see him, he has a large penis and I think he wanted to see my reaction. I actually had mixed feelings that are hard to explain. He just turned 16 so he is not a child anymore.

Danielle - posted on 07/04/2014

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My son just turned 16 yesterday. For the past 6 months or so he has regularly walked around the house nude, I also have a younger daughter so I tell him to put clothes on. This may sound strange for a mother to say but he does have a rather large penis and is father is not in his life, could this be a male dominance thing. Also, girls do not leave him alone they are very forward, they call him and come over very often. What is the answer ?

Johnny - posted on 07/04/2014

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+Veronica Vo wow what a sick disgusting hoe. seen your sons' penises?! bigger than your husband's?! felt jealous???!!!!!! what the actual fukk...

Ed - posted on 06/30/2014

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I, too, was "caught" by my step mom . She was married for the first time to my dad, and had no kids of her own. I was 12, and thought I was home alone. I was laying naked on my bed, masturbating, when I saw her watching me. She came over, sat on sat on the bed, and said she had never seen that before, and could she watch? It was a turn on to be watched, and didn't take long before she started to help. I orgasmed quickly, and it became an often occurance, with an enema thrown in, once in a while. She gave me a lot of cousins, that taught me much more!!

Brandyn - posted on 06/27/2014

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I fAntasize every day I want too fuck my mom more then Anybody I know she wants it my. Dads always around I will make her fall in love come get it tonight please

Shawnn - posted on 06/27/2014

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Any mother who gets a sexual thrill at seeing their own son nude is a pedophile and borderline abuser, so those such as JackieF better check themselves and re-evaluate their role in their son's lives.

And to the trolling teenager...get your sorry trolling ass off the computer, and do something CONSTRUCTIVE, you little trolling bastard!

Mariela - posted on 06/27/2014

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I think you should seek a girl your own age. You cannot help what you think at times. but you can help what you do.

Mariela - posted on 06/27/2014

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I guess good you started a new thread. It seems you are comfortable with your situation.

Linda - posted on 06/24/2014

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I'm a single mom too, and yes I have. It's just the two of us at home, so it's no big deal if I see him undressed once in a while.

Linda - posted on 06/24/2014

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I'm a single mom too. It's just me and my son at home, so it's not unusual for me to see him undressed once in a while.

Jackie - posted on 06/22/2014

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i just recently put up a new thread i just recently saw my son who is home from college, it was exhilarating and different to see him so grown up

Jackie - posted on 06/22/2014

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moms think these things as well its just different to actually do them

Unkown - posted on 06/22/2014

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Im a 16 year old son and I like the thought of sexual activity with my mom. She has a very nice body and I fantasize about her a lot. I don't think I would ever partake in sexual activities with her. Do you think that it's wrong to think these things? Help me out moms

Mary - posted on 06/09/2014

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My son is 15 and we were at the beach on vacation. He changed in front of me in the hotel room. I was totally shocked at his size. He was flaccid and his penis was as long as my hand. He got dressed in his swim suit and we went to the beach. I am not trying to be gross. I am just asking is this a normal size for a 15 year old. Should I talk to him about his size. After talking to my doctor about my son's penis size, the doctor did not seem concerned but I am still concerned.

Mary - posted on 06/09/2014

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Ten years ago, The story of my son begins when he is 12. He had is yearly checkup. When we went in the exam room, he asked that I not stay in the room. I was a little hurt that he told me that but the Dr. told me that is normal. Well after the exam the nurse told me that the Dr wanted to tell me this but she felt more comfortable telling. The nurse told me that my son had a very large penis for his age. I was shocked I had never noticed it before.

Veronica - posted on 06/08/2014

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Lol what kinda question is this? I cant even count how many times ive seen there penises by accident lol. Seeing them come out of the pool and shorts drop off and see the full thing to walking in on them when you didnt know they were there. I dont have much to say other than I was shocked that all of my boys have a bigger penis than my husband lol. Made me kind of jealous but there gfs will be very very happy dating them later on.

Karen - posted on 06/05/2014

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I saw my son's penis once just recently.... I came home from work a few hours early and walked past the bathroom, and there he was taking a shower.... we have a clear shower door and he left the bathroom door wide open so I saw everything.... my heart started pounding, and I just stared for a little while.... I couldn't stop staring because he just looked good.... he's in pretty good shape and his cock was just so big and beautiful.... And to be honest I was a little turned on. I feel guilty but on the up side I don't think he saw me looking at him.

Kacie - posted on 05/30/2014

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My son is 16 and he told me too look at it and it didn't even fit in my hand it was like 3 inches on hard what to tell him

Kacie - posted on 05/30/2014

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My son ask me how big his pecker should be bc it's only 4 inches I told him idk any suggestions he is 16

David - posted on 05/24/2014

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You are right. I can not imagine being 30 years old and not knowing if you will ever be able to make love again. I can only guess at the stress he has felt. I think there is a huge feeling of relief with the successful release this morning.
Bless your heart
Lynda

Mariela - posted on 05/24/2014

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Glad he is better and you helped him. Now his social life can proceed.

David - posted on 05/24/2014

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Thank you for your sweet comments Marlela. I know you must be a loving mother as well.
And yes - my son is progressing nicely. Today has been his best day yet. I came over at breakfast and he was already up and alert. Its obvious the meds slowed him down considerably over the past 2 weeks. Its so good to see him smile again. He cried so much yesterday - I knew he was depressed.
This morning - he told me..."mom, Im want to know I can still have an orgasm like a normal male." I suggested that he shower to relax his body and then try.
After his shower he came to the kitchen and asked if I would sit with him. Of course I said yes. I thought he just meant be with him like I have in the past. But when we went to the den I noticed he had lotion. I asked if he was going to masturbate - and he looked surprised and said "yes...is that not okay?". I told him I could stay or come back if he needed me. He asked me to stay. So I did., and when he removed the towel around his waist, I could tell his erection was more full than the last time he tried. There was not bruising in his scrotum either. So I was happy for him.
With a dab of lotion in his hand he began to stroke his shaft. I softly rubbed his back and told him he would be fine - not to worry - just think good thoughts. He seemed so precious. He was so slow. I know he doesn't want to hurt his surgery - and that should be no worry now. In a few minutes he already seemed concerned. I heard him sigh. I continued to touch his back with one hand - and I reached over to hold his hand that was stroking his penis. Like before - he said..."Im sorry mom". And I told him..."don't you apologize again. Im here with you and for you". My fingers slid inside of his until I was stroking his erect bare penis. I was so happy when he leaned back on the sofa and allowed me to carefully stroke his penis with my small soft hand. I felt that he was finally relaxed. Within minutes I felt his testicles rise. His fist clinched beside my leg...and his tummy contracted. I leaned over and kissed his cheek. And suddenly...YES! So good for him. His ejaculation was grand. I was so surprised. I suppose the 2 weeks off and the surgery left his testicles completely full. I put a towel on the floor to cover the mess. My sons eyes filled with tears of joy - and he hugged me. I held him close. He told me..."mom - I never would ask you to be with me like this....but thank you so much". His eyes just kept giving up tears. And I held him close.
Marlela....I think you are an amazing mom. Im glad you are here and supportive. I hope you continue to be close to your son. You will see - love takes on a new dimension as he grows.
Huge Hug for you.
Lynda

Mariela - posted on 05/24/2014

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Glad he is progressing. Seems you help make the best of this tough situation.

David - posted on 05/23/2014

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I trust that in the past 2 weeks we have grown past the thought of embarrassment. This situation started as a matter of practicality. I can still recall the surgeon walking in the recovery room - lifting the sheet at my sons waist to see his incisions - and thinking...I hope he is at peace. His surgeon was a young blonde girl about his age. His nurse was much younger. The nurse shaved his body bald, and inserted the catheter in his penis. My feelings were....he will never feel the same way about his body. Even the older nurse that helped him dress to leave the hospital...surely saw his penis.
So when I stayed with him the first day...and he pulled of his pajamas and eventually the sheet...I wasn't shocked. I think anyone that has been through the same situation would grow through the feelings of nudity. I am sure he did. I believe he has accepted my care and love. Since I last wrote - I have sat with him again and helped him change the dressings over the stiches. The stiches are dissolving - and his scrotum looked much better today. I found myself wiping his penis and scrotum dry today with a soft cloth. I never stopped talking to him about the weather - lunch and other subjects as we changed the dressings. I noticed his shaft fill with blood as I padded him dry. And never once did I ask him if he was embarrassed. I simply touched his penis and scrotum as if it were any other part of his body. Just like I would his nose - or lips. I think everything is perfectly okay with both of us. Im thankful that he has allowed me to help him. This has been an experience that Im sure has brought us closer together - and changed us both forever. Good luck with your boys. I hope you never have your boys go through what mine has been through. But if either of them do - I hope you will be comfortable with their nude bodies. Huge Hug to every mom and son that may read these messages.
Lynda

Julie - posted on 05/23/2014

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OH-BOY! Not yet... My boys are 9 & 12. I do dread the day, or possibility of that scenario tho. My husband and I taught the boys as toddlers to "knock first" and wait until the other person says "you may come in"
Mainly to avoid them walking in on us! But knowing that eventually, it would go both ways. Just know he is WAY more embarrassed about the situation then you are ;)

David - posted on 05/23/2014

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Thank you so much for the sweet reply. Yes - I think we are closer. I think emotional support is something that is missed by to many people. You have a son to? Huge Hug for you!

David - posted on 05/20/2014

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I received a message from the page sponsor encouraging me to continue to share. So I will. My first reply is below regarding my sons surgery - and the fact that I saw his penis while he was napping.
Yesterday was a new experience for me. I have continued to visit my son each day with breakfast or lunch. I have been happy to help. And I have become accustomed to him sleeping nude. I thought he may know that I have seen him several times. But we both continued to avoid the conversation.
But as I was saying, yesterday was different. I got to house around 10. Usually I was going over at 8 or noon. When I went in, I noticed he wasn't in the den sleeping. I walked back to see if he was sleeping in his room. Sleepin on his own bed has been his goal. But so far - the sofa has been the easiest to get in and out of. As I walked to his door - I saw him sitting on the side of his bed - masturbating his penis. His strokes were slow - so I first I thought he may have been washing. As I started to turn - he saw me at the door. His first words...."Im sorry mom". I told him not to be sorry - that I would wait in the den. His eyes filled with tears and he told me..."I tried to orgasm yesterday but no luck. And Im afraid I will never be able to again." His surgery involved the surgeon having to isolate his spermatic nerve and femoral artery. It was pretty serious surgery - and he was told that it could affect his ability to ejaculate. right or wrong....I quickly went to him and sat beside him. He rested his head on my shoulder and cried. I assured him he would be okay. "its just to soon" I told him. He still has bruising in his scrotum. I told him to give it a few days. I was happy he was okay to still cry on my shoulder. we just sat together and talked until he was calm. I don't think he has anything to worry about. But if anyone has heard of the same - I would welcome your feedback. His surgery was similar to hernia surgery - but more complex because of the complexities in isolating nerves and muscles. Be assured - I have no regrets in being with my son - seeing his penis - or holding him while he cried. I have no doubt that we will be closer than ever.

David - posted on 05/18/2014

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Hi - my son recently had abdominal surgery and I stayed with him 2 days to help out making breakfast, lunch and getting ice packs. As he was on strong pain meds - he mostly slept. I knew he wasn't wearing underclothes because the surgeon told him to wear only lose fitting pajamas or sweats. He is 30 - so he wore pjs. I am 50 - and it was fine by me. On the first day he was sleeping on the sofa - on his back. The first time he added ice packs to his lower abs - I could see his penis. I was surprised at the sight - just because it was unexpected. Within the first 2 hours he had the pajamas off and was covered only by a sheet. And it wasn't long before the sheet was off and he was laying nude with just ice packs. This was basically the situation for both days. I was surprised to watch his penis change from relaxed to fully aroused and erect while he slept. Maybe this is normal - I never saw my husband sleep nude. He never seemed to be dreaming - but who is to say. I was actually fascinated by the ever changing situations. I never touched him. I never even felt slightly moved to be closer. I was only a few feet away on the love seat. And I could find myself watching him for hours. Remembering him as my little boy. And now he is grown, he was naked, he was somewhat suffering from recovery of surgery from working out to hard. I never said a word to him. I didn't want to shame him. The situation that allowed me to know he was okay with me was when he asked me to help him remove the original dressing over the incision. He held a towel over his penis - and I eased the bandage off. His penis was only partially covered - and he was just as calm as I was. I was thankful. I didn't want him to change his view of me. Nor do I want my feelings to change about him. I would have done anything to help - and he knows that is true. I know he loves his father - but I think it would be different for a man to see his sons penis. Men are so concerned about comparisons. For me - it was just an opportunity to help him in the most vunerable situation. And I know we are only closer now. I hope you will all be loving moms to your sons. And never make them feel ashamed of their bodies - their feelings - or their needs. Hug your boys every chance you get! I am sorry I didn't hold him close even when he was naked. He will always be my baby. Lynda - Davids mom

Timm - posted on 05/17/2014

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Sally, i wish you were my stepmom, did he cum when you touched him? ive always wanted my stepmom to masturbate me!

Sally - posted on 03/25/2014

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I've seen my sons, but not really on accident. He was worried about it and his father wasn't home so I helped him and took a look. It felt very weird but it gave me a bit of a rush, and he's quite large for his age.

Mike - posted on 03/17/2014

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Ohh my God. I saw my 32 year olds penis. It was about 10 inches long and 6 inches thick. He now trys to expose his penis when ever he can. The head is so big it's the size of a plumb. I can't stop thinking about it now. He has been rubbing my back and touching me. God I want his penis. HELP ME. We share same Facebook so please respond on this site.

Adriana Marie - posted on 03/12/2014

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My son is also 14 and I walked in on him...I felt bad because he doesn't have any male figures he can tlk to about tht in his life..Just me and 7 sisters..So I tlked ot him about it...but he just got really mad and cussed at me...I don't understand thtt tho

Jackie - posted on 02/24/2014

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A similar thing happened to me with my son. I was very surprised with what I saw and it is very hard to forget.

Ryan - posted on 09/12/2013

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I am the son of a single mom, and I had an almost identical experience as you did.

My mom walked in on me once (I was home from college during the summer). I was in my room on my bed "taking care of myself". The door was open because I thought I was home alone. I has no idea my mom was back early. By the time I had noticed someone else was in the doorway, it was too late. I was mortified.

She stood there with a surprised look on her face, staring between my legs. I stopped and tried to cover myself up. She gave me a sheepish "oops, sorry" smile on her face and backed out of the doorway.

I felt so embarrassed, and I'm sure she was too. After I got over the shock of what happened, I calmed down and realized it was kind of funny, and there was nothing I could do to change what she saw anyway. It really was no big deal. In the end, I didn't mind that my mom ended up catching me masturbating like that. People play with themselves, it's a normal thing to do, and actually kind of exciting that someone else saw, even if it was my own mother (not that I would have chosen to do that haha).

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