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Has this happened to anyone else?

Megan - posted on 07/29/2011 ( 2 moms have responded )

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I've only got ten more weeks left in my pregnancy, and out of now where, for no reason at all.. i feel this need to leave my husband take our unborn child and run. I feel like i have gone crazy.. I love him why do i want to leave? Why do i want to take this child from him for no reason at all?

It doesnt make any sense to me at all, im not being abused, or mistreated in any kind of way, in fact he is very supportive... I feel so terrible for feeling this way... what can i do?

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Alison - posted on 04/10/2012

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I felt like this too. And all I can say is once you have the baby you will hate him. He will never do anything right in your eyes for the baby. But hang in there it will pass and you will feel the love you once had for him. I thought that I was the only one that felt that way and when I started to talk to other moms they told me the same thing. It last for about a year after the twins were born. But when we finally got to leave the house just the 2 of us I remembered why I fell in love with him, and remember that the first year is a crazy time. You are getting to know what your babies are like and what they like and when they eat and sleep etc. Just hang in there it will get better.

Kaean - posted on 08/18/2011

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I felt the same way it was not that I didn't love my husband it's your body changing and with that you feel like you have changed or need to make a change. I talked to me mom about what I was feeling and what she told me was to come stay with her for a week I had 6weeks left til my do date I stayed that week and cried everynight about leaving him at our house but I also talked to him about the way I was feeling and explained it to him I loved him but needed to get a way for my own good at that time. that is not to say that is what you need to do but I would talk to your doctor about it or a t least some one close to you.. talk to him if he really loves you then he will help fix or find out how to solve the problem... The biggest thing you want to do is to talk to the one you love and tell him want you are feeling and then to a doctor with him...My doctor told me and my husband that this feeling normally comes because you are depressed and when carrying a baby you do not need a reason to be depressed... talk to your doctor

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