Sally - posted on 05/08/2010 ( 30 moms have responded )
Im going to confess something here and am open to any feedback, be it negative or helpful. 2 years ago I cheated on my husband. We have been married 4 years and he doesnt know about this incident. I was depressed at the time and fell prey to a man who picks up insecure women. I thought he just wanted to be my friend and I told him many times that Im not 'that kind of woman'. But over time he wore me down. It happened just once (honestly). What do I do? I dont want to tell my husband because he is a GOOD man and deserves much better than this. :( I feel like I have ruined my life. I hate myself now. I used to respect myself. Before I was married I did not sleep around, in fact my first time was my wedding night with my husband. I cant believe I am in this position. I would NEVER do it again. I know people say that but I have realised how good my husband is and how I never want to hurt him. But its too late now. The chances of him finding out about what I did are minimal because the player was deported back to his country. Should I try and get on with life and hope he never finds out??