Sara - posted on 05/19/2010 ( 7 moms have responded )
ok i need some advice i'm pretty sure what i'm going to do but i want to know how or what other mom's would do! I have the father of my two children asking me to put a hold on the child support which he has not payed in like almost 2 years now and does not really support our kids except when it's his every other weekend visit he has a roof and food. i gave clothes for our kids to be there at his house and medicine. and he wants me to hold it because he's going to school online and it would help him out and not be racking up or put him in jail! also he asked me to give him our oldest son to do the tax credit this coming year to help him! BUT I FEEL LIKE HE SHOULD CLAIM HIM FOR TAX CREDIT DO TO HE DOES NOT SUPPORT THEM AND DOES NOT TRY TO DO ANYTHING MORE FOR THEM BUT WHAT HE HAS TO, AND THE SCHOOLING, I'M GLAD HE IS THAT'S GREAT BUT I'VE BEEN SUPPORTING THEM FOR 2 YEARS WITH NO HELP FOR HIM OR HIM TAKING THEM MORE. BUT WHEN HE MISSES HE MAKES IT UP BUT NOW HE'S SAYING IF I DON'T AGREE HE WILL TAKE ME TO COURT AND TRY TO GET THEM 50 - 50 SO HE DON'T HAVE TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT! HE IS REMARRIED AND HIS WIFE HAS HER OWN KID. AND NOW THEY ARE THROWING THIS IN MY FACE. PLEASE HELP GIVE ME ADVICE! THANK YOU.