Amy - posted on 08/20/2010 ( 83 moms have responded )
My son's father left after I told him I was pregnant almost 8 yrs ago, in March he contacted me to tell me he wanted to get back in his son's life. His mother also contacted me the same day. I find it distrubing that after all this time, they are contacting me. I met with him a couple times, but I'm not talking to him enough or moving things along fast enough for his liking. A couple weeks ago he threatened to take me to court, there is no paternaty established. My question: What should I do? I don't want to go to court! Since I posted this he has ceased communications. It has been about 2 yrs or so since I last spoke to him, so I guess my intuitions were right about him leaving again. Thank goodness I didn't subject my son to him. Thanks for all the advice given. Have a wonderful day!