Sara - posted on 07/31/2009 ( 3 moms have responded )
My son's dad hasnt been in his life at all he saw him when he was 2 weeks and then again when he was 7 months, and thats it. But I want my son to have his dad in his life in some way, but his father wants me back and nothing to do with his son. When he came over "to see his son" he didnt pay him any attention and just kept dropping hints about "us" getting back togerther. We havent been together since right after my son was concieved, and he flat out told me he didnt want any more children (he has a 5 year old daughter who he rarely sees and doesnt support). He isnt the most stable person, but he is my son's father and I dont want my son growing up not knowing who his father is, even if his father is a jerk. What should I do?