Wyn - posted on 06/11/2012 ( 11 moms have responded )
My son's father stops by this morning to give child support and says, "I completely forgot it was his birthday until two days ago, but it's no big deal". I did not respond, but inside I was seething!! Who says something like that about their OWN child nearly a week after the birthday? In truth, I don't really celebrate birthdays, but this was his first. I know that part of the problem is that I never contact him. If he hadn't brought the support, I would have waited until he contacted me. If I do ask for something, I either send an e-mail or send a message via voicemail (without calling). I did end things abruptly because of his behavior and lies. Perhaps, he is angry or I am over reacting.