Simone - posted on 09/23/2010 ( 15 moms have responded )
The sitatution is not pretty and never will be. i was dating a guy for about 5 or 6 months after just knowing him for about a year. I found out he was married shortly after I found out I was pregnant.I cut him off in all ways, phone calls and anything else immediately. He has not been around and he calls every 4 to 5 weeks. We live rather close to each other,but I really feel that makes no difference. As far as providing for my child financially and providing a stable home and environment, I got that. I would love for him to be involved with his son, but it hurts me to my heart to know he has lied to me from day one and has already proven that that's his plan now. Say what sounds good, not what's true or right. Each phone call begins nice and calm and then it goes sour because he is concerned more about me than my son.I've had it and want to legally revoke all his parental rights. By the way he is abandoning his premature son whom still resides in the NICU. So this is a touchy situation and it is causing me to distant my son from this. he said he no longer lives in town so now he calls more than enough.But while supposedly living in town, nothing. So i quit answering phone calls and I am not pursing child support or anything that allows him rights to my child. I know people come around or change, but when? Am I wrong for doing this or should I continue to move on?