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Well I posted about my situation not too long ago, in a nutshell, he served time in prison, I was by his side, he promised to be lovely for me and our daughter that he hadn't been there for before he went in. He gets out, spends time with her but only when sex with me is involved. I cut off any type of sexual relationship and then have to reveal later that I am pregnant. He bails. I cut off contact with him and enforce the current child support order which is in arrears.
Well he has been calling me private (blocked #) randomly and called me straight out from his cell phone today and I will not answer the calls. It is not to play games but I feel like I know he only has something negative to say, seeing as how he was adamant about not wanting to be daddy to the one on the way nor our 3 year old. And child support enforcement informed me today that they mailed him a 10 day notice to make payment or else other measures will be taken.
So Im not answering the phone because number one Im afraid of being subject to his verbal abuse and number two Im still not over him yet and I need to continue to build my strength up so he doesn't play on my feelings to try and manipulate me to close child support. But part of me feels bad, what if he wants to try and work things out about our baby and here I am not answering. He hasn't called back today and now Im worried what if he never does again...am I to blame if he doesn't?