Sabrina - posted on 04/13/2012 ( 3 moms have responded )
After hitting him hard with child support he wants back in my son's life. How can I trust that he will treat me with respect and be a full time dad if every chance I give him, he blows it. How many chances is a dad allowed, and should it just be a phone call and text, or should he prove more that he is worthy enough to let back into our lives? And I am not speaking of us continuing a relationship, he has a new baby with the woman he cheated on me with, besides that he is abusive, and is still hitting his current girlfriend. He owes me back childsupport of more than 1000 dollars and just paid 120 last month to save his drivers license. This is a man who weasels his way into my life to get what he wants, usually steals from me, thrills to see my heart break, roof over his head, validation for living. In fact the last time he did see my kid he spent the entire time following me around and even had the audacity to yell at my kid for throwing a toy at him. I want to draw a line, he has to respect me and be a normal caring full time dad to be in my sons life. My son doesnt even want to talk to him, he is just four but he already has an opinion of his dad. I have to be protective in this right? Just because he is the biological dad doesnt mean that he can act however he wants and get what he wants. I am the boss in this situation and if he doesnt act right...