Billie - posted on 01/06/2010 ( 64 moms have responded )
I was wondering if any of you have been in a situation where your ex stopped working "legit" and started working "off the books" to avoid paying child support. If so, have you had any success proving that in court to get your ex to pay arrears? My son's father got fired last year and has since been working off the books. I don't know where he works, I just know that he does. He's filing for a decrease in support due to unemployment and I'm wondering what I would need to do to prove to the court that he's purposely avoiding paying support. Any advice?