Dee - posted on 09/06/2012 ( 1 mom has responded )
I am a mother of a perfectly healthy beautiful baby boy. When I found out that I was pregnant, the father of my baby & I weren't together anymore. We broke up in November and we were still sleeping together until December(when I found out I was pregnant, I was 3 months pregnant) I did not tell him about my pregnancy until my cousin told him about it and he told me that he didn't want any part in it. Then in January he changed his mind and decided that he wanted to help me, as the weeks go by he was happy and excited but we never got back together. Towards the last week of January he didn't talk to me and I found out that he is dating another girl (via friend of mine) I tried I talk to him to ask him what was going on and what he wanted then he told me that he didn't want to support me and he didn't want the baby AT ALL, he wanted me to get an abortion and wanted me to take drugs to get rid of the baby, but I didn't. He kept my pregnancy from his new girlfriend & she was clueless until May, when she found out she still stayed with him because she said it was a thing of the past. The father of my baby and his mother even tried to bribe me into getting an abortion in which I denied of course. I was so sad and hurt and going through so much pain it was so difficult for me to cope... He would always put me down and say rude things to me.
On may I gave birth to a healthy baby boy. It was the happiest day of my life! When the father of my baby had found out that I've giving birth he wanted see the baby.. I didn't reply nor acknowledge him.. Till now he has been giving mixed signals, one day he would want to see the baby thn the next he wouldn't want nothing to do with him. His girlfriend gets mad if I tell him how the baby is doing. Now he told me he doesn't care about the baby and wants me to leave him and his family alone.. I don't know what to do? I am so lost and hurt by this.. I don't know how someone can be so rude and disrespectful.
His girlfriend doesn't want me speaking to the father of my baby nor telling him how he is doing. I'm just so annoyed by this