Alivia - posted on 08/23/2009 ( 5 moms have responded )
Just to give u a little history: I have a daughter that is 5 1/2 years old. Her sperm donor(father) is not in her life. she seen him once when she was 1 so she does not remember. She has asked about him and i have told her that hes not very nice and does not call to visit.(when i was preg. he beat me up and plays mind games so its better that he does not come around) I told her that im mommy and daddy. she was very happy with that answer. According to her its just her and mommy. She has 4brothers and 2sisters(i know nasty) she is the oldest. One of the baby mommas has contacted me to see if her little girl (4 1/2) and mine could meet. This baby momma has no contact with the sperm donor either. I know i cant keep her from them forever. (all the other kids are with another woman that he is still with from what i hear)
So my question is how do you tell a 5 1/2 year old she has brothers and sisters when she doesn’t even have the concept of who her sperm donor(father) is? And eventually that only one of her sisters would like to meet her but not the other ones?
I never thought I would have to deal with this until she was older.