Nicole - posted on 01/24/2010 ( 8 moms have responded )
I have 3 little girls but my husband has been raising his 2 youngest girls plus the one thats not his..but my oldest one caitlyn belong to an ex-boyfriens from 4years ago. I was 2months preganat when we broke up. I never hearded from him again. My husband has been takeing care of her just like she was his and loves her dearly. About 3months ago her dad contacted me throw a friend of ours and told them that he wanted to she her. SO after being gone for 3 1/2years he finley seen her for the 1st time, but he told me that the reason for not seeing her or even trying to find her was b/c he had just gotten out of the Navy. He also want to be apart of her life but that went sour.. He would never call or ask about her, and seen her for about 4hrs aweek then run off saying he had something to do that was important..and he called that being a father.From Oct-Dec 2 he seen her for about 7times. I had a talk with he about what it takes to be a real dad..but he didnt get the point. He promise our daughter that he would get her the barbie doll she wanted for christmas..guess what he never seen her or called or even got it for her. 2weeks b4 christmas he disapeared again. if it wasnt for my husband going out the day b4 christmas she would had never got her doll.. Then on caitlyns b-day which was jan 18 he call with a blocked number just to say to me " tell caitlyn i wish her a happy b-day from daddy" which pissed me off after what he had done to her b4 christmas. Then i had asked him about child surrport and this is what i got told" Your a money hungry b**ch and im not giving you a dime untill she has my last name"..and she has my last name but What to do with this whole mess going on?????And also my husband has been rasieng her from day one and she calls him daddy but after this she know about her real dad.