Dana - posted on 06/09/2009 ( 22 moms have responded )
thought i had a near perfect life with a not so perfect husband. we dated to 7 yrs and were married 4 yrs when i found out he suddenly wanted a divorce. then there was the other woman, the lies, etc. we have been separated for 2 yrs and are now in the process of the divorce. he will never admit that he has a g/f even though everyone knows he does-she now coincidently lives in the same apt complex to boot- HMMMM? people see him with her all the time. anyway, i know as soon as we are legally divorced he won't have any problem admitting to the relationship. my fear is with my daughter. i am sickened at the fact that the mistress will be introduced and she will act as a mother figure toward my daughter when i just want to rip her eyes out. it's one thing to have a step-parent, but it's a whole other can of worms when the step-parent is the woman the father cheated with. i need some serious advice as i have no idea how to deal with this, at all.