Lily - posted on 05/25/2011 ( 13 moms have responded )
My baby is going to be 2months tomorrow and her father just filled for FULL CUSTODY for her this past Sunday, Unbelievable!!!! He hardly ever comes to see her and if he does its when he is not with his "other child" whom is only 1month older than my babygirl and that other baby isn't even his!! He is such an unfit parent. He lives in a 2bedroom apartment with TEN people sleeping there and thats not including the people who are in & out of there daily. I thought we were doing fine being that I would always grant his wish to let him see her. He would pick us up and we would go out to a restaurant or to his families house so he could have time with her but now he throws this in my face and still has the nerve to text me the next day to ask when he could see her... Its been 2weeks since he has even bothered trying to see her. This doesn't even include all the stress he put me thru when I was pregnant. We had dated for 3yrs and once he found out I was pregnant he told me to get an abortion and left me!! 5months into my pregnancy I found out he got my so-called friend pregnant as well and her due date was only 2weeks before mines!! He held her hand thru her pregnancy and all. But now that her baby is here.. well turns out the baby wasn't his but some other guys. So now he wants to come into my daughters life and steal her away from me. I want to know what I can do to get full custody of my daughter and no rights for him. He didn't even sign the birth certificate because I didn't want to give her his last name, for what? He ended up leaving me AND his daughter to find our own way home from the hospital.