Shelly - posted on 09/14/2009 ( 8 moms have responded )
My son and I have been living with my now ex-boyfriend since last November. It took a really long time for my son to get used to him being in our lives. My ex and I got into a really big fight while on vacation and nothing had been the same ever since. Last Saturday he told me he didn't love me anymore, the spark is gone and we should just be friends. I asked him if he wanted to try and work it out some how and he said no he's been through enough. I thought that was a little strange so I asked him if he had been seeing someone else and he said no. I asked him if he was sure and he said no again. Then yesterday he left his Facebook on and I read his email and found the emails between he and the girl he's seeing. I showed it to him and anyway it's over and I'm very sad, depressed and angry and I'm tying to hide it from my son. He finally loves my ex and his three sons and I had to tell him that mommy and he have to live somewhere else. I feel like his heart is going to break. I'm stuck living with the ex for a while because I lost my job and still have to find a place, etc. I asked the ex to please be good to my son and he said that of course he would. I just don't want my son to be heart broken over this and for him to happy. I'm trying to stay busy so I don't have to think about it as much but I really just want to get over this pain as fast as possible and move on.