I'm a new mom to be in Jan.

Martha - posted on 10/27/2009

I heard HOC did that Evelyn. I tried getting into that but nothing was open. The receptionist said that they post openings for waiting lists in out local paper. But I have'nt seen anything yet. I was working but I had pains near my belly button and the doctor at the hospital said it sounded like a small hernea. I'm feeling ok now but I work at a kids shoe store and every week we get shipments that sometimes range from 5 or 15 maybe more. The weight of the boxes range from 20 to 30 pounds and I sometimes have to lift them or push them to the asile in the stockroom where they belong and put boxes of shoes away or climb. And lifting,bending and climbing was restricted from the doctor. My job now says our HR won't take me back without a wriiten statement saying it's ok to work. So hopefully tomorrow when I go for my doc visit I will get good news. I could file for disability but that could take 7 or more days. Either way I need to work or something until she comes cause I have other bills and rent to pay. So I do plan on working before and after I have her. Thanks again for the heads up Evelyn!

Evelyn - posted on 10/26/2009

I don't know if you're working or planning to work after your baby is born but most states have a program that helps you pay for childcare. Its an awesome program and it will definitly help you save money. Best of luck

Martha - posted on 10/26/2009

Oh ok thanks Rebecca. I will def check that out.

Rebecca - posted on 10/26/2009

There is yahoo's free cycle. Im a single mom, and it gets tough trying to provide. Free cycle usually will have childrens clothing, formula, toys, and other things you might want your child to have or that they will need. Its all free too!!! It sure does help out when things get too hard :) Good luck!

Martha - posted on 10/25/2009

I am already in that program but now that I think about it I do need to go ahead and get full custody of her. Thank you!

Hannah - posted on 10/25/2009

You will want to look into WIC. Go down to your county social services office as well - they can give you a complete list of different programs.

If you can - go ahead and get a custody and child support order in line NOW! once baby comes you won't have the time or the energy. Check with your local domestic violence shelter for lawyer/legal aide reccomendations.

Find all the 2nd hand/consignment stores in the area - they will be your best friends for clothing and kids supplies. I have a rule of thumb, I don't spend more than $3 on an item of clothing.

Good luck!