Lesleigh - posted on 04/24/2012 ( 2 moms have responded )
My husband deployed in may and and my daughter and I went to stay with my father to visit and I was pregnant so we wanted some family around for support because we had lived in Germany and i knew like 2 people. He started locking me out of the bank accounts in July and then stopped talking to his daughter and I very often... I was pregnant and due November 23rd... He took R&R November 11th and wouldn't come see us and he wasn't giving us hardly any money. Then he called November 18th during a family dinner for my birthday saying he wanted a divorce but he loved us and it had nothing to do with another female... i found out on thanksgiving he was sleeping with several females and had been cheating on me for all three years of our marriage... He has been collecting extra money and other benefits due to being married in the military and not supporting his family nor will he file for a divorce... he hasn't seen his oldest daughter in a year and has never seen his 5 month old daughter but he has been in the states on leave 3 months in the past 5 months... I don't know what to do and could use all the advice i can get and would really appreciate it! Thanks!