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Laura - posted on 11/02/2008 ( 2 moms have responded )

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My name is Laura and I'm 21, Just had my beautiful baby girl just over 3 months ago. She has seen her dad twice and the only time I hear from him is if he wants something... I left him just before I found out I was pregnant, but the onlly thing that really hurts is my daughter deserves better than this. I dont know how to get him involved or at least want to see picture of her to watch how quickly she is growing. If it wasnt for my parents I dont know what i would do, I just feel like I am relying of them to much. Her father is a dead beat, doesnt work and just parties his life away, I am going for custody but man its a lot harder than I thought it would be.

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Amanda - posted on 11/02/2008

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I know exactly what your going through, my son is five and we have been dealing with his dad not coming around for three almost four years now. It's hard and I had to move back in with my parents because he quit giving us money. Just keep your head up and know that you are doing what you need to do for your daughter. It's hard, NOT impossible.

Alicia - posted on 11/02/2008

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Your very young and strong and you can do it. She is so young, who knows you may find someone really special who deserves you and your baby. Your lucky you have your parents, just show your appreciation everyday to them for being there for you. I don't know how old her dad is, but hopefully he will outgrow the party stage and later realize he wants to at least support her. You can't make him get involved. He will only do it if he wants to.

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