ok moms i get child support from my sons father when he gets his taxes back will my son get any
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Kristy - posted on 04/25/2010
Unless you sign a form from IRS stating that you allow him to claim your child on his taxes, he can't! Doesn't matter if it's in the court order or not. IRS NO LONGER recognizes court orders for claiming a child on taxes, so if it were me, I wouldn't let him claim your son cause all he's doing is getting what he pays in child support back at the end of the year.
Sarah - posted 1 day ago
Jamie, you can look here for some info about tax return checks:
However, if it a refund that was sent to him, regardless of your right to the money, they may not tell you about his tax return.
If he is in such gross arrears then the child support office for your state or county should be garnishing his wages and a support check sent to you from them. If you have not requested his wages be garnished, check out this link below for assistance:
Jamie Dawn - posted 1 day ago
THANKS SARAH, MY EX IS A JERK HE NEVER HAD CUSTODY HE IS CLAIMING HIM FOR THE LAST 10 YEARS. BUT ITS FUNNY I NEVER SIGNED ANYTHING I DID TELL HIM HE COULD BECAUSE I ALREADY KNEW THE REFUND GOES TO ME THRU THE CHILD SUPPORT DEPT IN RIVERSIDE CAL.FOR THE 400,000 HE OWES WHAT NUMBER DO I CALL I CANT REACH ANY LIVE PERSON . I AM SO FRUSTRATED. I THINK HE GOT THAT MONEY ALREADY. HE THINKS I WONT TELL BECAUSE I DO NEED HIM TO SUPPORT US RIGHT NOW.
Sarah - posted 1 day ago
If you want to know if a check was sent to you by the IRS, call them. You may have to wait on hold but they will tell you if a government issued check was sent. If the check was in your name, your ex should not be able to cash it. Why do you not have this spelled out in your child support decree? It should specify how much he is to pay, and who gets to claim the kids on the tax return. You are filing separately, so why would he be entitled to your return?
Jamie Dawn - posted 1 day ago
MY EX IS TERRIBLE TO DEAL WITH, HE HAS BEEN TELLING ME I BETTER SPLIT THE MONEY WIH HIM WHEN IT COMES, I THINK HE PULLED SOMETHING AND ALREADY GOT THE MONEY, WHO CAN I CALL WHERE DO I CALL TO FIND OUT IF HE CASHED A TAX CHECK OR WHAT??? PLEASE HELP
Triona - posted on 08/01/2013
I've wondered this myself. My ex owes over 50k in arrears, and I'm sure files taxes... but we've certainly never gotten any. Is this something that you have to request? Our case is handled by the local DA child support division...
Jorgehernandezgabby - posted on 06/27/2013
Hello I have a question. My sons father and I have shared coustody of our son. But I live two hours away so our agreement ended up in my son staying with me 9 1/2 months for school and he stays with his dad in the summer. His dad does send money but I have not issued an official child support. But does this mean I can claim him on my taxses.?
Its simple as this the custodial parent has the right to claim the child for all credits, deductions, and exemptions unless a pre-2008 divorce decree States otherwise and there are no conditions attached to non-custodial parent claiming the child i.e. must be current on support or the custodial parent signs a form 8332 a release of exemption. If the non-custodial parent does claim the child he is not eligible for Earned Income Credit, dependent care credit, or head of household status. The custodial may still claim the above even if non-custodial parent claims the child.
Katie - posted on 04/27/2010
If you are the custodial parent he can't claim him as a dependent on his taxes. Simply paying child support doesn't qualify for that. You should be the one claiming him as a dependent if you are the custodial parent. Check with an accountant, but that's how it works for me.
Paula - posted on 04/27/2010
hi as far as i know he has claimed him for the last 3 years and i have gotten a good portion of that but this year i have yet to get one he didnt want this child support to be on his credit and i can recall him asking to claim him and they granted it because i can not file because i collect ssi so i guess my question is if he is claiming him or is it just because he had back child support but has paid that off now he only pays weekly payments untill january he turns 18.
Amber - posted on 04/27/2010
Hi there, I'm a tax preparer from Canada, these ladies are right, whoever is the custodial parent claims the child on their tax return.
In my case, I have 4 children, and claim them all, as they are all in my custody. This benefits my family in a number of ways, the first way is through the Canada Child Tax Benefit, which is a monthly payment to parents who's net income is below a specified amount. The second is through a dependant tax credit, I claim my youngest as what we call an "equivalent to spouse" which allows me to make more money before I start paying taxes.
I don't know how the actual tax returns are in the US, but I do know that tax law down there states the same thing, whoever has custody of the child, claims that child as a dependant
Alicia - posted on 04/26/2010
He can only claim him as a dependant but if the child doesn't live with his dad 6 months out of the year than he can't claim him on the earned income credit you get to every year. I learned that last year made my ex husband very mad. Even though my divorce papers state that my ex gets to claim him every other year I still get to claim our kids on the earned income credit & if your childs father is claimimg him on the earned income credit & your child doesn't live with him 6 months out of the year than you can get him in trouble for that. Hope this helped
We just went through this with my son. Whoever has the child most of the time is who files and gets money back. UNLESS you hae a court orderlike one parent files this year and the other the next. Since I don't work I couldn't file on my son nor my student loans. Even though my son is with he evveryday unless his real father decides to get him. However my sons father filed on him and split it between us. Hope this helps. :)
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