Diana - posted on 02/22/2011 ( 20 moms have responded )
I am 37 weeks preg.. first child its a daughter im so excited. My bf and me planned to have this baby..and slowly everythings deteriorated from the get-go. Im white, hes iranian..to say the least his mom hates mesince becomming pregnant she was threatening to kill herself if i didnt get an abortion and has found way to directly and indirectly harass me the whole time ive been pregnant.. ive stayed with my bf.. he has gradually become less involved in my life, hes got everything for the baby but leaves inthe morning, comes home at night plays video games or whatever then goes to bed, never makes any effort to do anything with me even if i ask him he wont do it. Ive tried to make amends with his momeven though ive done nothing wrong and she wont budge.. He treats me like absolute garbage some days.. calls me names and tries to be controlling (doesnt really work im not the type to be controlled). Anyways, theres so much history its hard to put into words.. right now ive moved in with my mom because i was cut off EI and he wasnt working much so we're both at my moms house, ive got a nursery set up here, and i just recently started getting maternity benefits and im enrolled in school for nursing starting next january.. My boyfriends mom is guilting him into leaving to go to LA for a week with her to see family the WEEK my baby is due? he says he wont go until right atfter, but i still dont want him to leave and im sick of him never saying no to his mom and never putting mine or my daughters interests first. I want to leave him im so sick of dealing with his mom, ive been too scared to leave him but now that im almost done, i almost think its the smarter thing to do.. hes changed so much and clearly if his mom will not respect me and he will not stand up for me or set limits with her.. i dont know if this will work! help! im so confused i just need some guidance.. ive tried talking to him, and he sends me nasty messages or says nasty things back telling me "to just leave him if i dont like the way im being treated"
what am i going to do