School with All Women!

Luvmia - posted on 02/04/2012 ( 4 moms have responded )

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Good morning!



I am in a free training program with nothing but women and it is crazy! There is bullying, cattiness, drinking and eating other peoples stuff and trying to be in everyone else's business. Even though I pretty much stay to myself and for the most part quiet, sometimes they find some reason to want to come and "strike" up a conversation. In my mind, I scream "get the h*ll away from me". I even have moved my seat and even stopped eating in the lunch area. I have been praying that I get through these next 7 weeks of training. Anyone have any other suggestions? It would be greatly appreciated! lol.

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Deidre - posted on 02/14/2012

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Start with daily affirmations. I am:

Lovely

Unique

Vivacious

Merry

Invested

Amazing



Also start interacting with them on purpose and bring a whole new meaning to Positively Positive. Be proud of yourself when you choose NOT to engage in negativity. Just be the solution. Sounds to me there is a serious issue with management. I recommend the book "FISH". Unfortunately, this is just the beginning of the future in this type of arena. I am just one of those people who TAKE action in more ways than one. I enjoy taking the bull by the horns. Whoever is in charge should definitely be notified of this situation, without a doubt. The whole Kill 'em with kindness really does work. Make positive acronyms for the leader of the pack. You never know what's going on in their homes. They may have some DEEP issues happening. My favorite thing to do is stop the person right in their tracks when they try ti involve me in"GOSSIP" I shut it down before she even starts with, "UUUHHH, I don't think so. I don't believe in it" They are always so shocked. I'm also for the Shock factor :)

Cosette - posted on 02/07/2012

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no hun prayer is all you can do just keep praying and stay to yourself. Be blessed and stress/fooliness free.

Luvmia - posted on 02/05/2012

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Adrienne, it is Nursing Assistant and Pharmacy Technician programs offered for free to underemployed and unemployed women.