Nicky - posted on 04/15/2012 ( 6 moms have responded )
I'll make this as short as possible. My sons father and I have been split up since my son was 6 months old. He used to see him all the time until my son was about 1 1/2. At that time he would say he has stuff to do so he cant take him. He would see him maybe twice a month until my son was 2 then he would rarely see him. My son didnt remember him when he did actually come to visit.Those visits were maybe 20 min at a time. From the time my son was 2 until he was 3 his dad seen him maybe 5 times. When my sons 3rd birtday came he didnt get a phone call from his dad and that made me angry. I got ahold of him and he said its a long story. I told him I dont want to hear it , it only takes 2 seconds to pick up the phone and say happy birthday to your 3 yr old. Come to find out he was on the run from the cops for a drug charge. He was caught and has been in prison for almost a year. He gets out this coming june. He wrote me a letter asking to see my son when he gets out. I didnt write him back and i dont think its a good idea since my son doesnt know him. Any advice on this?